Aren't the flowers gorgeous? Two ladies from our church - not professionals - made the altar arrangement. |
I borrowed this picture and the one below from Hilary's social media. |
Aren't the flowers gorgeous? Two ladies from our church - not professionals - made the altar arrangement. |
I borrowed this picture and the one below from Hilary's social media. |
Welcome to Sunday Stealing! Join with us and our host Bev Sykes of the blog "Funny the World". .
This week's questions were stolen from Luna Nina and they are actually word prompts, not questions.
I say,......and you think...
Casino :: Las Vegas
Bone :: Chicken
Painting :: Grace (our niece)
Shocked :: at what is happening in Ukraine
Quieter :: not me
Feed :: Catfish in the pond
Song :: Joyful! Joyful!
Glass :: bottle
Boat :: fishing
Junk :: the crap in the floor of my closet right now
Sheet :: clean (I love clean sheets on our bed!)
Knit :: mother-in-law and booties
Gift :: giver
Small :: bite
Title :: nobility
this was my room |
Eleanor built a fire for us |
the cute kitchen area |
the outside |
I’m joining us with host, Bev Sykes of the blog "Funny the World" for Sunday Stealing. These questions are from Friday 5.
1) What one event from your lifetime would you change if you
could, and why? I mention this in the answer for #3 below. I’ve answered all of
the other questions but this one. The thing I would most want to change is one
that I didn’t have control over. Someone else had control over me so I don’t
know that I could change it. Another thing I might change is to always be true
to me. There have been some years (more than I want to admit) where I tried to
be like everyone else. I felt like I needed to measure up. I’m actually a
pretty decent person with a good sense of humor and a lot of other good
qualities. I wish I had just lived my life as me and I wish I would have been
proud of it.
2) If you could give one piece of advice to your younger self, what would it be
and how old would your younger self be when they got it? Do you think your
younger self would listen? I need to write a whole post on these questions. I
guess one thing I would tell myself “go to college and get your degree.” If I
had finished in the early 80’s, I wouldn’t be taking classes now.
3) If you could have a conversation with the historical figure of your
choosing, whom would you pick and why? What would you talk about? I’ve actually
answered questions 4-15. I skipped 1, 2, and 3 because I just didn’t have good
answers. I think I might want to sit down with someone whose true story has
been told incorrectly over the years. I might want to sit down with a really
smart woman from the 1700’s or from earlier – a woman who was considered to be “property”
and who wasn’t supposed to trouble her mind with “men’s work” . . .heck – those
women were often the ones running things behind the scenes. Or how about Ruby
Nell Bridges Hall who was born 4 years before me? What was it REALLY like to be
the first African American child to desegregate a school?
4) What's a safety rule that's very important to you? I can’t think of a good
example. When I worked for South Central Bell and AT&T, you would be “written
up” for safety violations. One of the biggies was leaving the handle up on the paper
cutter. When I first went to work at Trinity, my heart would almost stop every time
I noticed the handle up on the paper cutter. Now it doesn’t bother me . .
.actually, if it is up and I walk through the workroom, I put the handle down.
5) What would you like to say to people in the future? Be kind to each other.
Take care of the earth!!
6) What's your favorite dish to bring to a summer cookout? I make an Asian slaw
this is requested often. I also love to bring a big bowl of fresh watermelon.
7) How much time have you spent outdoors this week? I’ve spent very little time
outside. Beginning now through April is my worst allergy time. Even on shots
and oral meds, I have to limit my outside time right now.
8) Where do you set your thermostat? Well . . .right now, it is on 64 and it is
finally warm in our house. Our heat is very efficient. When we go to bed at
night in the winter, we turn it down as low as it will go – 50 degrees! We have
several blankets and a big quilt on our bed. When the alarm goes off at 5:00
a.m., one of us runs quickly into the other room and turns the thermostat up.
9) How did you learn to swim? I can’t swim. I can doggy paddle. Hopefully, I could save myself. My sister and I
took swimming lessons when we were adults. Our swim instructor was awesome but
neither of us can still really swim. Mark was an excellent swimmer and swam on
the swim team. I always took our kids to the pool when they were little and we
did private swim lessons for them when they were 3. They are both great swimmers.
10) How do you avoid overheating? I live in Alabama. In the summer, we use our
air conditioner ALL THE TIME. We also dress in cool fabrics like cotton.
11). What are you going to do this weekend? I’ve been studying sociology. Saturday
afternoon I watched Chocolat. Questions about deviant behavior will be on our
next exam and looking at Chocolat through sociological eyes was interesting! College classes involve YouTube videos, Ted Talks, and movies - for this semester I have to watch Chocolat and Pretty Woman!
12) What’s your favorite way to spend time? I love to read. I love to spend
time with our friends and family. I actually like to exercise.
13) What’s the most useless thing you own that you would never get rid of? I
feel slightly guilty about my answer. I love my china and crystal – really! I just
don’t use it very often and I have 14 place settings. I won’t get rid of it, though.
Technically, it is not useless . . .it just doesn’t get used very often. I started to leave this question with no answer and looked up and right in front of me was this . . . hence my answer.
14) Have you started planning your next vacation? Yes! We hope to travel again
in June and that trip has been planned for a couple of years and postponed due
to covid. My husband is planning a trip
with his twin brother for August AND we are planning another trip to Israel in
February 2023.
15) Are you very active, or do you prefer to just relax in your free time or is
it one and the same to you? Free time? Seriously? I do love to curl up with a
good book but if I have free time, I’m usually cramming a long ride on the
stationary bike into the time, too. I did read a book today – Family Money. It
was good!
Each Tuesday night we have an ice breaker question with our young professionals. This week, I asked them to tell us their name . . .and their favorite chocolate. Mark's answer was "any." That works! Katherine said her favorite was a Kit Kat bar which I thought was cute since her name is Catherine and Kat is sometimes short for Catherine. Eleanor said her favorite candy bar was Skor. I don't think I've ever had one. I actually had to google it to find out.
photo borrowed from the internet |
I don't eat sweets any more but when I did, my favorite was Reese's cups -- especially the trees and pumpkins because the ratio of peanut butter to chocolate was just right. Here is a picture of a gift I received one time. They knew me well.
Just FYI, I did NOT give up diet pepsis!
So what is this all about? I've always called these wonderful nuggets of chocolate and peanut butter goodness . . . Reese Cups.
One of our Tuesday night young professionals has the type of personality where everything is black or white. He is very literal and is very vocal. When I said that my favorite chocolate is a Reese Cup, he turned and said, "It's Reese's." He pronounced it more like Reesie's. Anyway, I'll be honest. It ticked me off. I was still thinking about it on Wednesday morning so . . . .I went to my trusty friend, google. Imagine my horror when I realized that he was right - it is Reese's Cups.
I was telling my friend at work about this and SHE KNEW I WAS SAYING IT INCORRECTLY. I said, "why didn't you tell me?." She responded that I always said it with such authority and it was my favorite PLUS she said that I'm a person that is not easily corrected . . .which is so very true.
Anyway, I told Mark about this at dinner last night and he laughed and laughed because I'm not a person who is easily corrected and he knows that fact about me really well. I'm a #1 on the Enneagram . . .I like to tell other people how to correct things and make them right.
So dadgum -- I'm 63 years old -- I've been saying it wrong the whole time . . .and I'm not easily corrected. Yay me :-(
Anyway, what is your favorite chocolate?
I'm joining up with Joyce at From This Side of the Pond. I would love to hear your answers. You can answer in the comments or you can copy and paste the questions into your own blog, answer, and then link up on Joyce's blog.
1. February 16th is National Almond day...are you a fan? If
so what's your favorite food item or recipe that contains almonds? I love almonds! I like eating them straight from the can! My husband LOVES Almond Skillet Cake. My friend, Phella, makes THE BEST Almond Skillet cake. It tastes like a giant sugar cookie flavored with almond flavoring.
photo from pinterest |
2. Something you are currently 'nuts' about? I'm always "nuts" about our granddaughters but right now, we are also "nuts" about these two things:
3. Something currently driving you 'nuts'? I have a weird problem that is driving me "nuts." Sometimes I can eat scrambled eggs for breakfast and I'm just fine. Other times, like Monday of this week, I can eat scrambled eggs for breakfast and I feel horrible a couple of hours later. The eggs were good. They were fresh from our son's chickens. I floated them before cooking to make sure they were fresh. I washed them well with soap and water because they were fresh. I scrambled them and mid morning, I went to see if our church chef had any crackers. I felt like my face was surely green. I ate a few Ritz crackers and was perfectly fine about 30 minutes later. When I was first tested for allergies back around 1981, I think I had a sensitivity to eggs but not a full blown allergy. This is driving me a tad "nuts" because Mark loves breakfast food. Eggs don't bother me if I eat them for dinner. Deviled eggs don't usually bother me. Eggs cooked in a pancake or waffle don't bother me. Anyone else have any strange random sensitivities to food?
4. Something you recently bought for 'peanuts'? I can't think of a thing but I heard a great story on Sunday night at a neighbor's house. My husband and I fell in love with a piece of antique furniture in her home. It was a chest but the top was slightly sloped down toward the middle front. We asked her about it and it was some sort of wooden antique cutting board. It had been used for so many years/times that the shape had been altered. She found it at a flea market and paid $450 for it. Let me tell you . . .if she had purchased it at any "antique store" in the greater Birmingham area, it would have been $2500. I just googled images to see if I could find something similar and I don't see a thing.
5. Share a favorite quote uttered by any U.S. President
( if you're not an American, a quote made by the leader of your own
country). I'm going to be totally honest here. I do not know a single quote by a single president so I googled "quotes from U.S. Presidents." I found this one that I really like:
“There are men and women who make the world better just by
being the kind of people they are. They have the gift of kindness or courage or
loyalty or integrity. It really matters very little whether they are behind the
weel of a truck or running a business or bringing up a family. They teach the
truth by living it.” ― James Garfield (1831–1881)
6. Insert your own random thought here. We are looking forward to a couple of fun outings this week. On Thursday night, we are meeting friends for dinner at a local restaurant. On Friday night, we are going to a friend's home for dinner with our long-time supper club.
Our weekend started on Thursday night when we attended a play, The Odd Couple, at a local theater. We have season tickets and this one was hysterical. Our only problem was that we had been up since 4:30 and it was hard to stay awake. The play was FUNNY so the laughing kept me awake but I'm pretty sure Mark snoozed through a large portion of the play. The Homewood Theater had moved into a new space TWO WEEKS before the play. It is amazing that they were able to get it ready in time. Our good friend, Marietta, was the director and she did an awesome job. Oscar and Felix were played well by the local actors as were the other characters.
Friday morning I worked from home. Mark and I did a quick costco run at lunctime and we dropped his truck off for a new bedliner.
We had to go back and get the truck at 4:45 and we met our daughter-in-law and granddaughter #1 in the parking lot to do a trade. Sweet granddaughter came home to spend the night with us! She was acting silly while we ate "dinner" (lunchable). She had moved on to dessert. Have y'all seen these tiny ice cream cones (box picture below)? My 96 year old mother-in-law loves them as does our 5 year old granddaughter :-).
look at that giant hairbow! She is growing up so fast. |
Join with me and lots of other bloggers for Sunday Stealing. Thanks to Bev Sykes of the blog "Funny the World.” She steals the questions from the great internet each week and we answer and link up.
These questions are stolen from The New York Times.
1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom
would you want as a dinner guest? Great question. Do they have to be living? If
so, I might just choose to eat with our regular monthly supper club. We’ve done
life with this group since 2004 (actually much longer but we’ve been eating
around each other’s tables every month for that many years). Or maybe I would
like to sit down with Maria and Bob Goff (could it be at their house??). I
think they are such cool people. If I could eat with those who have gone before
me, it would be my parents and grandparents. I have lots of questions.
2. Would you like to be famous? In what way? I’ve always said that I would like
to be remembered as a philanthropist . . .but since we aren’t people of that
kind of means, that won’t be happening. I just want to be remembered for being
a good person who loved well.
3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to
say? Why? If it is going to be a difficult conversation, I will try to map out
in my head what I want to say. I don’t want to say the wrong thing in the heat
of the moment. Otherwise for any other conversation, I probably wouldn’t.
4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you? I love sunshine and I love
the beach so a perfect day would be spent with those I love in the sunshine on
the beach with maybe a cold beverage in my hand.
5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else? Our granddaughter spent
the night last night and we were singing, “Don’t talk about Bruno! No! No! No!”
I put our other granddaughter to bed one night during Christmas and I sang to
her. My husband hums ALL OF THE TIME. Seriously. I told him that I will start
worrying about him if he quits humming. When he is humming, the lyrics are
often going through my head.
6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body
of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
Since we’ve been watching the mental decline of my wonderful mother-in-law over
the last year, I think I would prefer the mind of a 30 year old. Though I will
say that I feel like I have become more wise in the 33 years since my 30th
birthday and I would hate to give that up.
7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die? I don’t. My mom died of
cancer (at 50) and my dad died of cancer (in his early to mid 60’s) so I’ve
always thought that would be my fate. At this stage of the game, I feel like
every day that I’m alive and in good health is a gift. I would like to just go
to sleep and not wake up when it is time. I’m sure most people would, too.
8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common. We have our
faith, love of family, and sense of humor in common.
9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful? Y’all . . .I have a
wonderful life. I have a great family. We live in a “just right for us” home in
an incredible neighborhood. We have amazing friends. We have “enough” money to
go out to eat or go on a trip. I have “more than reliable” transportation. We
turn on a faucet and clean water runs out. We have our share of troubles and we’ve
had some rough years in our lives but we are still incredibly blessed.
10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it
be? I’m not going to overthink this. When I was in the 6th grade,
you could join the band. I wanted to be in the band. My dad had been in a
horrible train accident and money was evidently very tight. My parents had to
tell me that I couldn’t be in the band. We just didn’t have the money at the
time. It is the only time I ever remember them telling me we couldn’t do
something because of money which is pretty incredible because looking back, I
know that money was probably tight a lot of the time. The only other thing
which is way more important is I wish my mom hadn’t died when I was in high
school. I think I turned out ok anyway but it was touch and go for a while.
11. Describe your life in one paragraph. See #9 above. In addition, I’m a wife,
mom, sister, friend, employee, daughter-in-law, sister-in-law, Sunday school
teacher, small group facilitator, college student at 63, woman of faith.
12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability,
what would it be? How about the ability to sing well? I actually used to be
able to sing “ok” – I made All State choir when I was in high school. I don’t
sing well at all anymore.
13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the
future or anything else, what would you want to know? I’m not sure I want to
know the future. Sometimes I “think” I do, but I’m not sure I really want to
know.
14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why
haven’t you done it? I’m doing it. I’ve dreamed of finishing my degree and I’m going
to do it one class at a time.
15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life? Mine is a two for one –
we have twins who are 35. They are awesome people. I gave birth to them and
kept them alive (some times that was doubtful 😊) and we raised them.
Linking up today with Leslie at Once Upon a Time and Happily Ever After for 10 questions on the 10th of each month.
1.
What was something you absolutely loved about
2021? We took a great family vacation to the beach and Mark and I took a wonderful
trip to Ireland.
2.
Do you have an interesting love story you’d like
to share? Please do! Are we supposed to share our own love story? If so,
my good friends Nancy and Sally planned a canoe trip for single young adults.
This was a long, long time ago. They invited their first cousins, who happened
to be identical twins, to join us on the canoe trip BECAUSE THEY ACTUALLY KNEW
HOW TO CANOE. Anyway, I was not in the same canoe as Mark but we did talk that
day. I went home and told my roommates (who happened to ALSO be identical
twins) that I had met the man I was going to marry. We did get married two
years later and we’ve been together ever since. We’ve had some great years and
we’ve had some really tough years. But here we are . . .and dare I say,
actually more in love now.
3.
What food do you love and must have on a regular
basis? My “have to have” is not really a food but a drink. I have to have diet
pepsi every day. I’ve given it up a few times over the years, but I really love
it. I love the taste. I love the fizz. I love the caffeine.
4.
What fashion “trend” do you love? It
doesn’t even have to be a current trend. I prefer my skirts and dresses above
the knee. I’m 63 so I don’t mean ridiculously short but I prefer for them to
hit above the knee. I’m not sure there is a fashion trend that I love. I did
love big hair in the 80’s and I had awesome big hair.
5.
Which season do you love most? Why is it
your favorite? I love fall when the temps aren’t quite as hot and the leaves
are gorgeous. In Alabama, it is usually still hot enough in September and
October for a trip to the beach. I love the long sunny summer days, too.
6.
If you could be with a loved one who has passed,
who would it be and what would you do? I would love to sit down with my parents
and just find out about their lives. I would also love for my Granny, my daddy’s
mother, to be there because I want to ask about our Irish roots.
7.
What would you love to accomplish in 2022? I’ve
written this on so many blog posts that it is beginning to sound crazy. I would
really love to get to my goal weight. I’ve lost weight so well over the last
few years but I have hit a brick wall and cannot get another pound off. I need
to sit down and map out a plan. Just wishing for something without a plan to
achieve it rarely works.
8.
Which do you love most: shoes, handbags,
belts, or coats? I love shoes but my feet HATE shoes. I wish I could wear
gorgeous heels and fancy pumps. Handbags are fun. I’m not sure I even own a belt
anymore. Coats are fun but I really don’t like cold weather.
9.
What love remains with you today? I’m not going
to give this a lot of thought – I’m going to write what popped into my head –
the love and grace of Jesus. He loved me before I was born and he still loves
me at 63. His love is faithful and true.
10.
How do you show your love? What is your
love language? One of the ways I show love is by cooking for others. I also try
to tell people that I love them. My love language is gifts and that doesn’t
mean that I need gifts. I love giving gifts. I really love giving a gift that
the person loves. I gave my husband a bottle of Pappy Van Winkle and he was so
excited. I gave him a skeet thrower this Christmas (he did pick it out) but I
love when he comes home from the farm and tells me how much fun he had using
it. My “next” love language is words of affirmation. I thrive and grow on words
of affirmation. If I do a good job – tell me – and next time, I’ll try to do an
even better job.
1. Besides the predictable name-rank-serial number, what's something you know by heart? We say The Lord's Prayer and The Apostle's Creed, or Affirmation of faith, every week in worship and I know those by heart. I know quite a few hymn lyrics and children's songs by heart.
I believe in God the Father Almighty, maker of heaven and earth; and in Jesus Christ His only Son our Lord, who was conceived by the Holy Spirit, born of the Virgin Mary, suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, dead and buried. The third day He rose from the dead; He ascended into heaven, and sitteth at the right hand of God the Father Almighty; from thence He shall come to judge the quick and the dead. I believe in the Holy Spirit, the holy catholic church,* the communion of saints, the forgiveness of sins, the resurrection of the body, and the life everlasting. Amen. (*) We aren't Catholic - see this is a little "c" -- refers to the universal church – or to make it easier – all of the churches who believe in Father, Son, and Holy Spirit
Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy
kingdom come, thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day
our daily bread. And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who
trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.
For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever. Amen.
Mark's mom sang a song to him when he was little and we sang it to our children and our daughter sings it to her daughter (not sure about son)
Horsey Horsey carry me
Through the woods and to the sea
If you’re tired and want to stop
I will let the bridle drop
2. Something recently that had you tickled pink? Today in our staff chapel, we were doing some fun get to know you things. Someone said that I was their mentor. That was really special and I guess it "tickled me pink."
3. How do you define the word romantic, and are you one? Romantic means (to me) that you would be doing things that you know the other person would love whether you love it or not. Romantic would also include a good surprise every once in a while. I don't think either of us is very romantic but we sure do love each other. Mark did something for me one year for Valentine's day that was very romantic. He made reservations for dinner at a cool venue and didn't tell me where we were going until we got there. It was a Prix Fixe menu and the restaurant presented each lady with a red rose. It was nice. I surprised him with a trip to New Orleans one year for his birthday so we do things for each other all of the time but I don't think of us as romantics.
4. Finish this verse with your own original thought....'Roses are red, violets are blue...
I found this one on line:
Roses are red
Violets are blue
I wouldn't know
because I don't get them from you!
This made me laugh!!
5. Five little things you are loving right now?
school - because I'm learning new things!!
family - because I love them!
work - because I love my job
daffodils and forsythia beginning to bloom
the thought of traveling again (the thoughts are small . . .travel is not)
6. Insert your own random thought here. Mark and his twin brother went hunting last week and Mark shot a hog. Wild hogs are very destructive and have decided to take up residence in Alabama. Anyway . . . Mark made homemade sausage this weekend. He smoked it last night but I didn't get any more pictures.
We had one of those weekends that was full and went by in a flash. I actually worked in the office on Friday and then had lunch with two of my best friends. It was so cold and gray on Friday, but we sat around the kitchen table and enjoyed being with each other.
I studied in the afternoon and then this cutie arrived.
This is her "say cheese" face. Our daughter and granddaughter came to visit for the weekend. We had our Lil Lambs Consignment Sale at the church last week and I bought a big baggie of My Little Ponies for her. Needless to say, she liked them.
She slept in the new little bed we bought from Pottery Barn. It is a big chair that folds out into a twin bed. I ordered foam bumpers from Amazon and they worked really well.
On Sunday, Mark and I headed to church and Laura and sweet girl went to spend time with Grandmother.
We all gathered at her house after church and Granddaughter #1 was so sweet with #2.
After lunch, I studied a little more and then I went to a Tea for one of our sweet girls who grew up in our church and who came to our Tuesday night group.