Adulting 101 Hodgepodge

I'm joining up with Joyce and friends for this week's hodgepodge. You can visit her blog or you can answer in the comments below. I'd love to hear your thoughts!!

1. What's an adult problem nobody prepared you for? 

I had NO idea that I would still feel the need to parent our adult children . . .and that they would not want our advice. Seriously! I know good and well that Mark nor I took his parents advice, so I imagine his parents may have felt the same way. We try to bite our tongues and keep our mouths shut . . .but sometimes, we don't :-). 

2. How tuned in are you to all the recent food related health news? Have you gotten rid of your scratched cookware? Did you pay attention to food additives before they made the news? What's one healthy eating/cooking/food shopping habit you need to adopt?

I try to keep up with food safety news - recalls, etc. We try to eat a healthy diet - fruit, veggies, lean proteins. I don't pay nearly as much attention to food additives as I should. I do worry about red dye - weird one. One of my favorite things to do is meal prep, but I haven't had as much time lately. I need to work out a schedule where I make the time to do it. I still have some scratched cookware, but our cookware is relatively new All Clad. I've been reading up on the use of semaglutides. The uses of the drug interest me.

3. What's getting worse and worse as you get older? How about better and better? 

I'll start with the better and better -- I care less what others think of me. I still want to be nice and look nice and be kind and good and love all of my neighbors, but I don't have time to worry if you are talking about me. In the other direction . . .I guess my memory is getting worse and worse and some of my aches and pains are getting worse. Those things are annoying!!

4. Are you more of an indoor person or an outdoor person? Elaborate. 

I'm an indoor person because of my allergies. I would love to be an outdoor person. Mark would double over laughing about me being an outside person :-) because he knows I'm not.

5. If you had an expert personal assistant today, what would you have them do?

I would have them meal plan and prep for me. Could a personal assistant do that?? I could also use some help running errands -- Mark does a lot of them since he is now retired, but he has been really busy lately. I might also ask them to dry and style my hair every morning . . .and keep the house clean . . .and the laundry done. I need a wife! haha! I did all of those things when I was a stay at home mom. Mark does do a lot of our laundry. I put my work clothes in a special spot in our closet and I wash those each week, but he does a great job on towels and underwear and his clothes.

6. Insert your own random thought here. I'm very pleased with my grade in the Family Life Education class plus it was actually very interesting. By the time you are reading this, it will be Wednesday which is the beginning of the next minimester. I will be taking Human Sexuality for the next 5 weeks. Mark has made so many jokes about the course content. You can imagine. In the fall, there are two 8 week semesters. I think I remember my advisor telling me that the online schedule doesn't exactly line up with the on campus semester system. I qualify for two significant scholarships IF I take two classes in that first eight weeks and two classes in the second eight weeks. I think I'm going to try to do it though I am TERRIFIED of the work load. That means that by Christmas, I will have accrued 18 more hours. I transferred from community college with 60 hours and I have to have 60 more hours to get my B.A. at Samford . . .and if I can do it, by Christmas I'll only need 42. 

On a more fun note, our middle granddaughter will have a birthday this week so we will go to her house this weekend and get to see BOTH of our children (and their spouses) plus all three granddaughters!!

Fourth of July Weekend in Review

Happy Monday to you! We had a really low-key weekend. Mark went to the farm on Thursday and Friday and finished the flooring in the kitchen. I have got to find an old photo of how the kitchen used to look so y'all can see for comparison.

While he was at the farm, I was still riding high on steroids so I cleaned the house (somewhat). I read a little and rode the stationary bike. I ran to Publix for a few things.

We had plans for dinner on Friday, the 4th and Mark texted at 1:00 that he was headed home from the farm. The drive takes a couple of hours so he would be home in plenty of time to head to his sister's house for dinner. Mark didn't check Waze before he started home. Big mistake. There are two ways to drive to and from the farm - I-20 or Highway 280. He detests Hwy 280 because there are 23 traffic lights over a several mile stretch. He got to I-20 and traffic was stopped. He called and I looked it up and I-20 had been closed for SIX - yes, 6 hours, due to an 18 wheeler accident. They literally had a crane in the middle of the interstate trying to get the 18 wheeler out of the hole and everyone had to exit into a small lake town. There were two lanes merging into one exit lane, along with the dingbats who decided to make the shoulder a third lane. Right at the last moment, Mark saw the workmen picking up the big orange traffic cones. They were opening the interstate! A normal hour and 45 minute drive became at least a 3 1/2 hour trip, but he made it home in time. We were only a few minutes late. She made stuffed mushrooms as an appetizer using an old recipe of mine that she found in her mother's recipe drawer. I took a big green salad and I even made the homemade lemon dressing. Susie had smoked a couple of chickens and slabs of ribs and she had baked beans and corn on the cob. She made date bars for dessert - Mark loves them! The four of us were a small group, but we enjoyed each other's company.

Saturday morning found us staying in the bed until 7:30. I felt like we slept away the day. I usually get up at 5:00 and due to the steroids, I had slept very little the previous two days so I'm assuming I needed that rest. When we got up, we heard about the flash flooding and I was so sad. My mother's heart just grieves with these families. We have no true personal connection with any of the families, but one little girl was from here.

Mark worked in the yard - digging up around the sprinkler system in order to add two more sprinkler heads. Some of the new landscaping was not getting enough water. He also did some "park fishing" - he was testing out a rod, reel, and line.

We invited our good neighbors, Lu and Dave, over for dinner. They brought some produce fresh from their tiny garden. She brought some potatoes to roast and some of them were purple. They tasted almost like a cross between a sweet potato and a white potato! They brought some chicken from the day before and Mark grilled salmon, halibut, and Lingcod. We talked about travel and family and friends and had a nice quiet evening.

Sunday morning found me back at work. It was a very slow day at church. We are normally a hopping place on Sunday mornings but we have lots of members who have lake houses and beach houses plus a lot of our congregation has been traveling internationally this summer. My co-worker and her husband and two boys are out west doing a two week trek through some National Parks. I worked from 7-11 and then I headed home. It is so hot here that Mark had actually stayed home from church so that he could do as much sprinkler repair as possible before the heat index hit over 100. We ate leftovers for lunch and we took a nap and we ran over to his brother's empty house to check on it and get the mail. I'm ready for Mark and his siblings to sell their mother's house (they are working on it) and sell Bill's house so they can stop messing with them.

me at the Welcome Desk on Sunday morning
very little make-up!

We enjoyed Susie's mushrooms so much on Friday night, I drug out my original recipe and made stuffed mushrooms for us for dinner. We were laughing about how that was my "go-to" appetizer that I made everytime we had company as newlyweds. They are so easy - a little bacon; a little cheese; a little chopped mushroom stems; a tad of Grey Poupon and a tad of mayo. Mix, stuff, and broil.

We watched the last two episodes of Justified last night. I wsn't sure how they planned to end it, but I actually liked the ending.

Now it is Monday morning at 5:33 a.m. and I'll be headed back to work in a couple of hours.

Did you have any fun this weekend? Tell me about it - I would love to hear!!

FAB Sunday Stealing

 

Welcome to Sunday Stealing. Here we will steal all types of questions from every corner of the blogosphere. Our promise to you is that we will work hard to find the most interesting and intelligent questions. Cheers to all of us thieves!

Since it's the 4th of July weekend, we're going to keep this simple. We stole this from a blogger named Idzie, who called this the F.A.B. (film, audio, book) meme.

F.A.B.

F. Film: What movie or tv show are you watching? Breaking Bad (can't decide if I like it or not), Young Sheldon, Justified (I'm writing this on Friday morning. We may have finished Justified by Sunday. We both hate for it to end.) We just finished Bad Sisters (loved the Irish accents). We are still watching the Mentalist. At this point, we can get up and wander around while watching. I can't wait for y'all to tell us what you are watching! Mark starts feeling panicked when whatever we are watching comes to an end.

A. Audio: What are you listening to? I'm not listening regularly, but I have "How to Win Friends and Influence People" on audible. I listen randomly. I thought it was funny that I've been listening to the book and when I was watching Young Sheldon on Friday night . . .Sheldon was reading the same book!

B. Book: What are you reading? I just finished the second book - "Kills Well With Others" by Deanna Raybourne. I mentioned the first one a week or so ago - "Killers of a Certain Age." I'm reading "Reckoning Hour" by Peter O'Mahoney. This is the first in the Dean Lincoln Legal Thriller series. I think it was my free kindle choice for the month. It is ok so far. 

Thank you for playing! Please come back next week.

Currently on Saturday

First of all, is today really Saturday? I took a couple of days of vacation and I can't keep track of what day it is!

Currently, I guess it is Saturday. It is 89 degrees and it feels like 94. The sun is shining and the sky is blue with lots of white clouds.

Currently, I am enjoying a few days off. I've still checked my work email every day but unless it is urgent, I haven't' answered it. I have to go back to work in the morning (Sunday) so I'll be back in the groove next week.

Currently, I just finished a book, "Reckoning Hour" by Peter O'Mahoney. It was pretty good. I think I'll read "The Pastor's Wife" next. The author is Lyndee Walker. Both O'Mahoney and Walker are new authors to me.

Currently, I've been making and eating a weird thing. I take about a cup of plain fat-free Greek yogurt. I put a piece of parchment paper on a small cookie sheet and I spread the yogurt out all over the sheet. It is a very thin layer of yogurt. Today I sprinkled a little non-caloric sweetner on the yogurt. I didn't do that with the last batch. I'll let you know if I can tell a difference. I think sprinkle a ton of blueberries on top of the yogurt. Then I melt 1/4 cup no sugar added Lily's dark chocolate mini morsels in a measuring cup, along with a teaspoon of coconut oil (how is it oil if it is solid??). I drizzle the chocolate over the berries and yogurt.  I place the cookie sheet in the deep freeze for a couple of hours and after it freezes, I break it up into pieces and put it in a freezer bag. It is so good.

Currently, I am buying . . .well the designer and I are looking for two pieces of furniture and a wall hanging. I ordered some accessories to put on the hearth since we aren't lighting a fire at this time of the year. When those items arrive and I arrange I can show y'all a photo if you want to see. I don't think they will arrive before next weekend.

Currently, I am very sad as we've read about the flooding in Texas. We got a text from work today that a church member's daughter is at a camp adjacent to the damaged camp. The daughter is a college student so I'm wondering if she is a counselor. Her parents arrived in Texas this morning. I also received an email sent to the student body at the college I attend, Samford University. One of the little girls that died is the child of one of the professors. She was 8 years old. That has just shattered my heart. Mark finally told me to stop looking at the news online because I just kept crying.

So . . .currently, what are you doing? What are you reading or eating or making or buying or feeling?

Thursday Thoughts and Tangents

The final is over. Hallelujah! It took me over 3 1/2 hours to finish it.

I had an appointment with the ENT yesterday. I have a sinus infection so I got a steroid shot and an antibiotic shot along with a prescription for antibiotics and a steroid pack. I slept about 4 1/2 hours last night and I'm still wide awake tonight at 10:22 . . .so I decided to write, "Thursday Thoughts and Tangents." 

We started a 5th Sunday Fellowship this year. Our second one was this past Sunday. It was well attended. Last time I ordered from Krispy Kreme and they really messed up the order and wouldn't respond when I asked for a partial refund. This time, I ordered Hero doughnuts - local and excellent. They delivered exactly what I ordered and even delivered a few minutes early. They called on Friday to verify my order.

I grabbed a quick photo of Mark and his buddy, Duane.

 

Tuesday night, our young professionals met at Moss Rock Tacos for dinner. On Tuesday nights they offer a selection of three tacos for $3 each and $2.50 Mexican beer.

Jessie loves to bake cookies and she brought patriotic cookies for everyone.

We ate outside and we had a great time. There were more of us than I caught in the photo. We laughed so much.

I took Wednesday off because my final was supposed to be live first thing . . .it wasn't available until 3:00 p.m. I had a list of other things I wanted to do plus a doctor's appointment. I headed downtown to the Jefferson County Health Department Vital Records office to get death certificates for two more family members.

When my niece was cleaning out my sister's belongings, she found some savings bonds from 1943 and 1945. I'm working on cashing those in but it has required so many documents. I turned in the requests and paid my money and waited . . .and waited. The employees were so nice. I finally had to tell the nice lady that I had a doctor's appointment and I would come back after the appointment. The deal is that I was downtown and had to head south of town for the doctor's appointment. Of course, I literally had just merged onto I65 and she called to tell me it was ready, but I didn't have time to turn around and still make it on-time.

I made it to the doctor and had a nasal endoscope where he saw a few new polyps on one side and signs of infection on the other side. (read paragraph one).

Then I hopped back into the car and headed back to the Vital Records office downtown.

It was around 3:00 in the afternoon and I had not eaten in hours and hours so I actually treated myself to an order of Milo's fries.

Cool fact - My grandpa was born in 1894 and died on the day after Christmas in 1979. He was 85 years old when he died. I knew that my mom was only 50 when she died. I didn't realize that my daddy was just 61.

When I got home, my final was finally available (pun intended). It was 10 essay questions and it took me a long time - over 3 1/2 hours. Whew!! Mark dug around in the freezer and found some poppyseed chicken and heated it up for us to eat for dinner.

Mark left for the farm this morning. He is working hard on the farmhouse.

Later in the morning, I saw movement on the screened porch. Look at that rascal -- there was a chipmunk inside the porch.

I finally had to raise the garage door and I hope he ran out. I haven't seen him since.

So what did I do today? I answered some work emails. I found an error on my paycheck and emailed my co-worker. I measured our rug on the front porch and ordered a new one. I texted and emailed with Liz, the designer, about a couple of pieces of furniture. I made our menus for next week and ordered groceries. I went to the gas station and I picked up some prescriptions for both of us. I rode my stationary bike for 30 minutes. I wrote a letter to the savings bond people which I will print next week and mail with all of the other paperwork. I even sat outside in the sun for a few minutes. I also signed up for Netflix. I watched two episodes of Breaking Bad. Why does someone always throw up? Now I've watched a bunch of episodes of Young Sheldon. Sheldon got carsick . . .why does someone always throw up? Seriously! The episode on right now is the one about the brisket recipe!!

The country club nearby had fireworks tonight - I could hear them more than see them. The shutter was too slow to catch the actual firework but it made the sky bright.

I'm going to brush my teeth and try to go to sleep tonight. If not, I guess I'll sleep eventually! The good thing about steroids is that all the other normal "hurts" don't hurt right now!!

Have any of you taken Metformin orWegovy? I've got to get the rest of this weight off.

I guess tonight's post truly was Thursday Thoughts and Tangents haha!

Free to Write My Hodgepodge Answers!

 

1. What does freedom mean to you? 

Freedom means I can make the choices I feel are right for me and my family, without fear of punishment or control. It means I can believe what I want to believe, speak my mind, and live according to my values. Freedom is also being able to travel anywhere in our country, explore new places, and meet different people without restriction.

Freedom means having opportunities—like going to school (even at 67 years old) and choosing a job I enjoy. It also means being able to stand up for what I believe in, even if others disagree, though sometimes I find it hard to do. It means I can go to church and freely worship God. It means I can have a blog and write about whatever I choose.

But freedom isn't free. It means someone, somewhere, fought for it—and many still do. I’m grateful for those who protect our rights and for the responsibility we all share to respect each other’s freedoms.

2. How will you celebrate Independence Day this year? If you live outside the USA answer this question as it relates to your own country's patriotic holiday, wherever that may land on the calendar. 

As of this moment, we have no plans. I would like to have plans. I don't even know if any of our friends will be in town!!

There will be fireworks on Tuesday night at a nearby location. I may try to go park in a lot nearby and watch.

3. This or that...red, white, or blue? Stars or stripes? Watermelon, home made ice cream, or blueberry pie? How do you feel about fireworks?  

I love blue . . .but, also red! I will vote for stars. Watermelon is always a winner for me.

4. What have you purchased recently that made you excited? 

I haven't made any fun purchases lately. I am on the hunt for a couple of pieces for our house.

5. I'm thankful to live in America (or fill in whatever country you call home) because

I feel safe (most of the time haha!). Also, I'm thankful to live in the USA for all of the reasons I listed in #1.

6. Insert your own random thought here. I'm typing these answers on Sunday afternoon while it storms outside. I plan to work about a day and a half this week and by the time you read this, hopefully I will be taking a day or two off. We don't have any plans, but I plan to rest, if possible.