Wednesday, November 19, 2025

Hodgepodge Questions-Volume 629

 



Here are the questions for this week's Hodgepodge. Thanks again to Joyce. She has written 629 sets of questions. Unbelievable!! Answer on your own blog, then hop back over to Joyce's blog on Wednesday (November 19th) to share answers with the blog world. See you there! 

 

1. Let's do our gratitude question first this week...what's the best thing about your home, and have you taken time to enjoy it lately? The best thing about our home is when it is filled with people with love! In addition to that, the best thing about our home is its "rise from the ashes."

July 9, 2022 - Lightning Strike - Five fire trucks




Our living room


Our entry hall


My office upstairs which looks really bad, but wasn't as bad as the bedroom next door.


The bathroom in the room that took the brunt of the fire.



I'm going to be transparent here. I did not expect the surge of emotion I would feel looking at these pictures. It has been 3 years and I saw a therapist for the entire first year following the fire and these photos still brings tears to my eyes.

But here we are today. Everyone is healthy and our home is whole.


It is fully updated. Here is that living room that was floating in water.


And here is that bathroom.


And here is my office.



God was with us every minute and brought us through the fire and we are better on this side than before. Count your blessings, name them one by one!

2. Do you like squash? Of the varieties listed, which one's your favorite and how do you like it prepared? Is squash of some sort on your Thanksgiving menu?? 

acorn, butternut, delicata, spaghetti, zucchini, crookneck (yellow squash), patty pan

We love delicata, but can't get it year round in Alabama. We also love butternut and it has been on our Thanksgiving menu many times. We make it like sweet potatoes, but it is lighter in texture and taste. I really enjoy yellow crookneck when it is fresh in the summer. Acorn squash are ok if you can get the ones that taste a little sweeter. I have used spaghetti squash in several recipes over the year. Patty pan is fine, I just don't cook it often.

3. Last time you were 'squashed in' somewhere, or felt squashed? When we were flying from Frankfurt to Chicago a few weeks ago. I always get stuck by the man who spreads himself over two seats -- his seat and part of mine. I totally felt squashed.

4. Have you ever played squash? What about other 'racquet sports' such as racquetball, tennis, pickleball, badminton, table tennis (ping pong)? Are these sports something you enjoy? I have never played squash. Way back in the day (like 45 years ago), I played racquetball fairly regularly. I actually took tennis lessons, but I was never a good player. I have never played pickleball, but it is all the rage where I live. In my lifetime, I have definitely played badminton and ping pong! At this time of my life, I'm not enjoying any of those sports. 

5. Something in today's society or culture that feels like a 'racket' to you? If you don't like that one, tell us about a place you've been recently where there was a lot of 'racket'. We were somewhere recently when my watch went off two different times telling me that the noise level was too much. I think it was when we were on the cruise and everyone was in the lounge and people were laughing and talking! It didn't sound like a racket though -- it sounded like happy people on vacation! I do know a 'racket' though -- Mark went to buy one of our former caregivers a gift card. There was a $7 convenience fee added on - that is just ridiculous. The other 'racket' would be the cost of greeting cards. The price of greeting cards is totally out of control!!

6.  Insert your own random thought here. There’s a lady on Instagram I follow—Nanette Johnson at sweetfringebenefits. She and her husband are having a different kind of holiday season this year, and it made me think about our own. When your kids grow up, move out, and start families of their own, the holidays definitely change. And now that Mark’s mom is no longer living, things have shifted even more.

So what will you be doing for Thanksgiving? For Christmas Eve and Christmas Day?


9 comments:

  1. Well the holidays certainly do change as the nest empties. I think the key is adjusting our expectations (I've taken a while to get there lol) and staying flexible. We're having dinner at daughter1's house and an early Christmas here with both girls and their families. It's the 'in-law' year so hubs and I are going to my sister's for Christmas. My mom lives with her and is almost 96 so look forward to having this time with her. All my siblings will be there and that's fun too. It's not the same as having littles in the house, but you have to embrace the moments you're given. I think I might write about this topic so thanks for the inspiration. So glad and thankful you came out of that awful scary fire whole! Hope you have a great day!

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  2. What a lovely answer for the first question about it being filled with the people you love. How wonderful that it has risen from the ashes but terrifying at the same time.
    What is it about men spreading themselves over their seats and ours. I had the same on the bus recently!
    The cost of greetings cards aren't too expensive here but the price of stamps to send them are!
    My girls are still at home and will be for Christmas but I can imagine how much it changes. My dad and his partner are off to Scotland to spend it in a fancy hotel.

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  3. Wow...those photos! I can imagine the emotions they would bring up. So glad everyone is doing well and everything has been restored. I know you are beyond grateful everyday. You have a beautiful home, by the way. I LOVE your porch...something out of a magazine!!

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  4. Sending you a hug Lisa, I did not know your story about your home. I appreciated your honest post about how it takes time to heal from such an event.
    My mom is hosting Thanksgiving, I am making the table settings.

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  5. I can't imagine the terror and the thoughts you have remembering the fire. God Bless You!! The holidays change when family dynamics change with death and older children now have a family of their own.

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  6. Oh, that fire. My heart hurt for you during that time and I can't even imagine having to go through something like that. Yes, holiday celebrations do change over the years. I miss the big family gatherings I grew up with. We could have 30 people celebrating and it was noisy, and fun, and the food was amazing. I still try to keep some of the traditions alive, even without family gathering. My friends are like family. It works. xo

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  7. I can certainly see why these photos bring tears to your eyes. Big hugs to you!

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  8. Oh, I am sorry about what you endured a few years ago. I am so thankful it has been restored. I agree with you on those convenience charges!!

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  9. Such an amazing story of your rising from the ashes, Lisa! Wow. So grateful with you that you could rebuild. What a thing to live through. Holidays do change. Since we moved to the country we do not host Thanksgiving anymore. We do host Christmas Day dinner. This year that Prime Rib is going to cost a fortune!!

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