I'm joining up with Joyce and friends for this week's hodgepodge. You can visit her blog or you can answer in the comments below. I'd love to hear your thoughts!!
1. What's an adult problem nobody prepared you for?
I had NO idea that I would still feel the need to parent our adult children . . .and that they would not want our advice. Seriously! I know good and well that Mark nor I took his parents advice, so I imagine his parents may have felt the same way. We try to bite our tongues and keep our mouths shut . . .but sometimes, we don't :-).
2. How tuned in are you to all the recent food related health news? Have you gotten rid of your scratched cookware? Did you pay attention to food additives before they made the news? What's one healthy eating/cooking/food shopping habit you need to adopt?
I try to keep up with food safety news - recalls, etc. We try to eat a healthy diet - fruit, veggies, lean proteins. I don't pay nearly as much attention to food additives as I should. I do worry about red dye - weird one. One of my favorite things to do is meal prep, but I haven't had as much time lately. I need to work out a schedule where I make the time to do it. I still have some scratched cookware, but our cookware is relatively new All Clad. I've been reading up on the use of semaglutides. The uses of the drug interest me.
3. What's getting worse and worse as you get older? How about better and better?
I'll start with the better and better -- I care less what others think of me. I still want to be nice and look nice and be kind and good and love all of my neighbors, but I don't have time to worry if you are talking about me. In the other direction . . .I guess my memory is getting worse and worse and some of my aches and pains are getting worse. Those things are annoying!!
4. Are you more of an indoor person or an outdoor person?
Elaborate.
I'm an indoor person because of my allergies. I would love to be an outdoor person. Mark would double over laughing about me being an outside person :-) because he knows I'm not.
5. If you had an expert personal assistant today, what would
you have them do?
I would have them meal plan and prep for me. Could a personal assistant do that?? I could also use some help running errands -- Mark does a lot of them since he is now retired, but he has been really busy lately. I might also ask them to dry and style my hair every morning . . .and keep the house clean . . .and the laundry done. I need a wife! haha! I did all of those things when I was a stay at home mom. Mark does do a lot of our laundry. I put my work clothes in a special spot in our closet and I wash those each week, but he does a great job on towels and underwear and his clothes.
6. Insert your own random thought here. I'm very pleased with my grade in the Family Life Education class plus it was actually very interesting. By the time you are reading this, it will be Wednesday which is the beginning of the next minimester. I will be taking Human Sexuality for the next 5 weeks. Mark has made so many jokes about the course content. You can imagine. In the fall, there are two 8 week semesters. I think I remember my advisor telling me that the online schedule doesn't exactly line up with the on campus semester system. I qualify for two significant scholarships IF I take two classes in that first eight weeks and two classes in the second eight weeks. I think I'm going to try to do it though I am TERRIFIED of the work load. That means that by Christmas, I will have accrued 18 more hours. I transferred from community college with 60 hours and I have to have 60 more hours to get my B.A. at Samford . . .and if I can do it, by Christmas I'll only need 42.
On a more fun note, our middle granddaughter will have a birthday this week so we will go to her house this weekend and get to see BOTH of our children (and their spouses) plus all three granddaughters!!

The two class work load sounds daunting, but I'm sure you can do it. I think it's natural for parents to want to make lives easier for their children, no matter their age. My mom is 95 and still weighs in sometimes when not asked lol. I don't get upset though, I understand it's a mom thing. It's freeing not to be weighed down by what others are doing and thinking (of us and our choices)...I agree, and that definitely comes more easily with age. Have a great day!
ReplyDeleteIt is a mom thing :-). I love that your mom still weighs in.
DeleteOh yes! I get you on #1! I have a 22 year old who thinks she knows everything, it is so hard to keep my mouth shut but she has to learn by her mistakes sometime.
ReplyDeleteAs I have got older I too care less what other's think of me. I always say if they're talking about me they're leaving someone else alone.
I would love someone to meal plan for me and do all of the food shopping, it's such a chore!
Good job with your classes and good luck with the new one's.
Thank you so much!!
DeleteI understand your #1 ... and I am with you, it is so hard to not have them listen to the advice... and later have to say... told you so. ;-) Not that I do that, but you know what I mean.
ReplyDeleteDry and style my hair... I should have thought of that. Love that one on your list.
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Carla
I want to say I told you so . . .but I bite my tongue!
DeleteWhoa boy, I can relate to your #1! Gotta love a fellow who does laundry .. your Mark's a keeper!
ReplyDeleteHe is a keeper for sure!
DeleteMy husband and I constantly talk about how when our kids get older and have kids, we have to be mindful of not trying to parent or give too much advice. I know we didn't like when my mom tried to take over so we have to be aware.
ReplyDeleteWe try not to say things, and actually rarely do, but sometimes it is so hard.
DeleteHappy birthday to your grandgirl! I agree with you about not caring so much about what others think of me. Right there with you on that one! I am what I am, and that's all I am! LOL Sending a hug!
ReplyDeleteThanks for the hug!!
DeleteI’m in complete agreement with your answer about being parents to adult children. It’s tricky trying to figure out boundaries while trying to offer safe advice. I’ve found that, depending on the adult child’s personality, whether or not said advice will be welcomed. I often find one of my girls outright refuting my advice, so I’ve quit because she makes me feel dumb. Haley birthday to your granddaughter!!!
ReplyDeleteIt is such a tough boundary. My oldest sister, who died in November, always said, "I just had them. I can't explain them." about her two adult children. I've taken over her expression. Our kids are actually great and wonderful -- there are just times I wish we could say some things - or wish they would listen if we did say something.
DeleteOOH you're taking college classes?? what are you hoping to get a degree in? I can't imagine doing college as an adult. haha although I loved every minute of undergrad AND grad school, it must be hard to go after raising children? But good for you!!
ReplyDeleteI have a few spring time allergies but i don't let that stop me from being outdoors as much as possible. I use an over the counter Allegra during hte month of April and that usually helps tremendously. I also cut down on eating the foods that exacerbate my allergies for that month.
I enjoyed your answers to this week's questions!
A huge pat-on-the-back from me to you on your continued-ed endeavors. I must agree with your answer to #1. I never imagined in my wildest dreams that we would live within 15 minutes of our family here and never see them. We do see our daughter and youngest granddaughter at church on Sunday mornings, and try to catch up before the service begins, but never during the week. Our oldest granddaughter is busy with a three year old and a six month old, and we never see or hear from them. Remind me again why we moved here? They are all too busy to think about the elders, I guess. Oh well, that's just life in this era, I suppose. Enjoy the rest of your week.
ReplyDeleteI can relate to number 3 as well with you. Oh, enjoy the family time and celebration this weekend! Sounds lovely!
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